Epiphani
When you are a child of the Most High God, you can and should live in expectation. To live in expectation means that you literally begin to expect, anticipate, await Godâs ways and promises to be a reality in your life on the regular, because God said it to be so. You expect to be favored, you expect to live blessed, you expect to obtain the victory in every trial (no matter how rough it gets in the middle of it), you expect Godâs promises to come to passâŚ
Whereas the world says, âno expectations, no disappointments,â as a follower of Jesus Christ, you can rest assured that when your expectation is in God, His Word, His promises, and His character, disappointment will NOT be your portion! The scripture that God brought to mind was Proverbs 23:18, which says, âFor surely there is a hereafter, and your hope will not be cut off.â Basically, you will not be disappointed when your hope is in God. In fact, the Amplified version literally says, âSurely there is a future [and a reward], and your hope and expectation will not be cut off.â
So, step out there and put your expectation in God. Look above your circumstances, above the people around you, above what you see in the natural, and seek to see how God sees, and then begin to walk in expectation to see what He showed you by the Spirit come to pass in the natural. As you read the Bible, donât just read it as a fairytale or an inspirational self-help book, but actually begin to apply it to your life and expect to see the fruit develop in your life. Expect to see the things that God promises to become a reality in your life!
It is the beginning of a new month. Take a moment to imagine what might happen if you decided to live in great expectation of God this month! The Bible already tells us that God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we could ever ask or think according to His power that works in us (Ephesians 3:20). So, set your expectations high and watch God meet and exceed them! Donât let past disappointments keep you from putting out hope and expectation again, but this time, make sure your hope is in God and anchored in His Word. Know that when you put your hope and expectation in Him, your hope will not be cut off! Choose to believe that today!
Welcome to November, sis! I am challenging you to live in expectation this month (and beyond)! I am looking forward to all that God will do and I hope you are, too!
I love you bunches,
Have a healthy & wholesome week and an exceedingly blessed month!
P.S. Just to clarify⌠expectation and entitlement are two subtly different things. Entitlement says, âI should have this thing because I deserve itâ or because âI want itâ or because of whatever other reason. However, expectation says âI anticipate this thing (or great things overall), because it has already been established for me by my Heavenly Father.â Expectation rests on Godâs goodness and His promises, whereas entitlement rests on our âgoodnessâ and deservedness.
Freely live in expectation today đ
Here's a song to go along with this month's declaration!
A little while ago, I heard someone say that the Holy Spirit told them that, âIf it sounds too good, itâs probably not Me,â and man⌠that hasnât sat right with me since! Typically, if someone says, âGod told meâŚâ I like to at least give them the benefit of the doubt⌠unless, of course, what they are saying is not biblical. And in this case, Iâm sorry, but I must call a flag on the play, sis! đŠThe Bible tells and shows us over and over again that God is good and He has good things and good intentions for His children who are in right standing with Him. It is important that we are able to see God as our Abba Father, who loves and cares for us, and wants the best for us, and also, as God, who is sovereign, rules over the Kingdom, and has a will that He desires for us to follow. Being too far on either side of the spectrum can cause us to miss out on different aspects of God, reject knowledge of Him, and even at times, miss what He is doing at any given moment.
In this case, if you have a skewed view of God that says that, âif itâs too good to be true, itâs not God,â how will you be able to have faith for the big, wonderful things He desires to do in your life⌠not because of your goodness, but to put His goodness on display? To answer the rhetorical question for you, you wonât! Of course, God being good does not mean we wonât go through things, face challenges, and have to overcome, but we must remain grounded in the fact that Godâs nature is good! Heâs a big God and the things He desires to do in our lives will often seem âtoo good to be true,â especially when we âput our faith out for something far out,â as one of my mentors would say. Below, Iâm gonna list a few scriptures to really anchor this point as well as a few times in the Bible where God did something that definitely seemed âtoo good to be true.â My prayer is that our eyes, minds, and hearts will more open to the spectrum of who God is, and that we receive and stand on the fact that God is a good God, in every aspect⌠and may our faith in Him increase that much more by knowing and believing that!
So, âif it sounds too good to be true,â itâs probably not if God is in it!
Love you bunches!
Have a healthy & wholesome week đ¸
Scriptures
I'm cheating this time and borrowing this site's list. They really drive home the point we discussed today!
It Seemed Too Good to Be True
First example that comes to mind is Elisha telling the Shunnamite woman that she would have a son. She basically told him, "Don't play with my emotions like that." It seemed too good to be true to her! (2 Kings 4:8-17)
Next, Abraham and Sarah having a baby at 100 and 90 years old! Need I say more? (Genesis 21)
Actually, I will say a little more... This was after God had told Abraham He would make a great nation out of Him through his descendants... Meanwhile, Abraham has not an heir in sight! Talk about "too good to be true." Imagine if Abraham had said, "nah, that sounds too good... That couldn't have been from God!"
All of Jesus' healing miracles, but to call out one, Jesus delivering the man's son who was possessed with a demon. He's the one who said, "I believe, but help my unbelief." (Mark 9:21-27)
So many more where this came from. I challenge you to brainstorm a few examples of your own.
âAnd above all things have fervent love for one another, for âlove will cover a multitude of sins.â
I Peter 4:8 NKJV
Yâall, sometimes we have to cover our sisters , even in their mess!
Kinda similar to what we talked about in this video, when you cross paths with someone, they may not yet know Jesus, or they may know Him, but may not have yet matured in character and love⌠but that doesnât mean that they wonât anytime soon & even if they never do (God-forbid), we must be intentional and led by the Holy Spirit in how we deal with others. In this case, weâre specifically focusing on how to respond when others hurt, betray, or offend us. There is something gracious and compassionate about 'covering' others (ie. not exposing them) in their flaws & sins, even the super âugly,â hurtful ones. Iâm sure there are people that donât want to hear this, but this also applies to those who have blatantly set themselves up as our âenemies!â
(Clearly God has us on a character-development wave lately, lol!)
Covering our sisters may look likeâŚ
Genuinely praying for someoneâs growth, enlightenment, or even healing (because we know that hurt people really do hurt people) vs. hoping they âget what they deserveâ
Choosing not to gossip about them or even to share the dirty details of how theyâve treated youâŚ
Not in an unhealthy, âprotect the family molesterâ kind of way đ đžââď¸
But rather, sharing only what is necessary for your healing and recovery from the situation without taking the opportunity to trash or bash them
& choosing to only share with a neutral, trustworthy party
When itâs really bad, the most you may be able to do is to choose to say nothing, even when you really have the ârightâ to say everything!
Hereâs what Iâll have you to know thoughâŚ
Many times, this is an act you do in integrity and love for God.
The other person may never know or acknowledge this act of kindness, and worse, they may continue to do and say ugly things, whether knowingly or in ignoranceâŚ.
Continue to walk uprightly in love anyway.
Continue to be the bigger person.
There may be times when âcoveringâ someone requires exposing the situation to necessary parties for their safety, for yours, or for both⌠or because it becomes necessary to follow the protocol outlined in the Bible for escalation to and through the body of Christ.
Check out Matthew 18:15-17 for more details
It probably (definitely đŹ) wonât feel good and a part of your flesh will definitely die in the process
Can you say âpruning & refiningâ?
You may need to recover emotionally and/or mentally from the personâs words or actions
This doesnât make you weak or unspiritualâŚ
Taking the high road of love doesnât mean that the offense, the slander, the attack, betrayal, etc. doesnât hurtâweâre still human after all, and women at that!
However, taking the way of character and integrity keeps you in the safety and protection of Godâs graces, and choosing not to take matters into our own hands gives way to wrath, allowing vengeance (or restoration) to truly be the Lordâs, whatever He may choose to do.
But don't stew in it or let it consume you (more guidance on that below).
When faced with a situation, such as slander, an offense, an attack, a betrayal, etcâŚ
Seek the Lord for how you should respond, if at all, and do what He says.
As you await His instructions, choose to cover your sister â resist the urge to gossip, slander, or âcancel.â
If this is someone meant to be in your life going forward (and even sometimes if not), be willing to have a conversation to bring reconciliation and help you move forward.
Even in this conversation, covering them may look like addressing the hurt and relevant actions, but not necessarily going down the line of all of their flaws or everything theyâve ever done.
Address and seek healing from the wounds that may have been inflicted by their words or actions.
Intentionally forgive (even if you never get an apology).
Journal about it if needed.
Intentionally let go and move forward to a new beginning, whether it be with or without the other person.
Continue to move in honor and integrity with the power and guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Be led by the Spirit & not by the flesh
Letâs be real thoughâŚ
The truth is, not everyone is actually our âsisterâ (especially not in every season) â some people donât truly have our best interest at heart and donât share Godâs intentions (yet). Nevertheless, as Kingdom Ambassadors, we must still operate in the ways outlined above, while also operating in wisdom in both the spiritual and natural realms.
âPray for the person; bind the spirit(s) operating through them!â
Remember that in all things, the goal is to please and be approved by God, not man.
Let this truth direct your words and actions.
May you be found faithful đđžđ
Love you bunches!
P.S. This isn't just something I'm picking on y'all about, lol.
It's something I've actually had to learn in real time, so I'm right there with you!
We're becoming more Christ-like together đ¤